Success means different things to different people. There are several measures for success, be it money, fame or work satisfaction.
However, the most important of all, how do we go about being a successful woman?
Here are the 10 habits ladies must possess to become a successful Woman in life.
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1. Stop Comparing Yourself To Others
Just STOP!!! Don’t compare yourself with that Lady that slept around to buy herself an iPhone 8, be contented with the Tecno phone you got legitimately.
There’s going to be points in your life when you’ll think that other people are smarter/more attractive/successful/have their act together more than you do, however it’s all relative.
Sure, that person may seem like their life is so much more awesome than yours, but here’s the thing: You never know the full story about other people’s lives. Comparing yourself to other people is pointless and a waste of time because you’re not them.
What’s right for one person, might not be right for you. So, stop measuring yourself against someone else’s yard stick. The sooner you come to terms with this, the happier you’ll become.
2. Never Make Someone A Priority When All You Are To Them Is An Option
Putting your time and energy into people who aren’t willing to do the same for you is a dead end street.
This means stop obsessing over that guy or girl who won’t text you back (or only texts you really, really, late at night with vague invitations to “hang out.”) – You’re better than that.
If someone wants to be in your life, they’ll make it happen and actually respect you. Let go of dead-end relationships. The time you’ll save you can devote to things and people that actually bring you joy.
3. Stop Spending Lavishly
Sure, that shopping spree on latest bag/shoe/hair/cloths may feel good in the moment, but it’s probably going to feel less good a year down the line.
Instead, save your pennies so that when you really want to treat yourself, you have a reserve fund and can buy a couple of nice things that will feel really special (that won’t send you into financial ruin.)
4. Take Control Of Your Sexuality
Explore what makes you feel good (alone or with a partner.) Communicate your fantasies. Ask for what you want in bed.
Stop dating people who don’t accept you for who you are or love your body as much as you do.
That guy who refuses to try new things in bed because he says “you’re just making things more complicated than they need to be” – ditch him.
Acknowledge that as long as you’re not hurting anyone, whatever you’re into is OK.
5. Challenge Yourself
Life is about challenging yourself and overcoming your fears. You will not find success if you remain in your comfort zone your entire life.
You need to allow yourself to experience the world, both the safe and scary parts of it. Challenge yourself and watch yourself grow. You’ll get a better understanding of the world; thus, you’ll be better equipped to conquer it like the Boss Lady that you are.
6. Educates Yourself
Knowledge is power. Success is not granted to those that put in minimal time and effort when it comes to getting work done and making progress.
Take the time to educate yourself and allow yourself to reach and surpass your potential for knowledge.
7. Always Smile
You’d be surprised as to how much a smile can say about you. It makes you look more friendly and approachable, which are qualities that a lady must have.
So remember to greet everyone you meet with a warm smile, you never know whose day it will make.
8. Sets Goals For Yourself And Follows Through With Them
This is one of the most important steps to finding success. Sit down one day and write out a list of everything you would like to accomplish within a week, a month, and a year.
After that, draft a game plan as to how you plan on getting yourself to where you would like yo
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